<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227</id><updated>2011-04-30T02:45:16.449-07:00</updated><category term='Organic Community'/><title type='text'>DJ's Book Rants</title><subtitle type='html'>A Seminary student and pastor trying to find an outlet for all the books he has to read.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>17</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-5794006517864269981</id><published>2008-05-03T14:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-03T14:27:16.572-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Organic Community'/><title type='text'>Organic Community</title><content type='html'>Summary&lt;br /&gt;Joseph Myers does not waste time or words in his short but powerful guide to creating “organic order.”  The book is built on a contrast between creating a master plan for community and working at being a community environmentalist.  This lends itself easily to his structure of taking a catch-word for master planning and replacing it with a environmental approach.  The nine organizational tools he chooses (patterns, participation, measurement, growth, power coordination, partners, language and resources) will hit home with any church system.   The book is a response to all the leaders who found themselves deeply moved by “A search to Belong,”  but needed more explanation on how the four spaces really effect an organization and leadership. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observations&lt;br /&gt;Myers brilliance and audacity are immediately apparent in his ability to get Randy Frazee and Bill Donahue (the fathers of community master planning) to write forewords to a book that deconstructs their models of ministry.  In the “The search to Belong” Myers has a posture of anecdotal humility concerning his discoveries.  And though Organic Community is a response to the “what now question” Myers seems more confident and speaks from practical experience.   Though I like the title and the language of the book it seems fairly trendy to be talking about something being organic and leaders becoming environmentalists. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;Each organization tool elicited it own emotion from me as a reader and church leader.  When I read about moving from prescriptive patterns to descriptive patterns I felt like saying “yes” and copying the chapter of for my leadership team.  After reading his chapter on participation as moving from representative to individual I felt a need to repent and ask several peoples forgiveness.  He talks about how no one wants to simply fit in our well-designed plans, or be a token participant.  I am sorry to all those people who have been asked to do something they had no gifting, desire or ability to do.  The chapters on measurement and growth are great, but the next chapter that really stirred my spirit was on power.  I have been reacting to positional power for years, but realized while reading this chapter I had been advocating flat power verse what Myers calls “revolving” power.  Flat power sharing would look like a flock of geese flying in a straight line.  What we really need is a revolving system of power where the person who can take the project forward at that moment has the permission to step up.  When I read about coordination and partners I was frustrated by what Myers had to say.  I think he was right in both cases and now I have to change my approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;I think the kind of organic order Myers describes can be implemented into a system built by master planners.  I think this is why Frazee and Donahue both liked the book.  Even as Myers is reacting against master planning he advocates giving the “project” the power to avoid positional authority.  What is a project if it is not a plan making an object or goal the end result of relationships.  Myers provides what I might call the new leadership principles for environmentally savvy leaders.  In the end it does not interact very much with the 4 spaces of belonging.  He provides many great anecdotal examples from his own business, but provides few descriptive examples of what the system of organic order would look like in a church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess&lt;br /&gt;This is a valuable resource book for leaders who desire more natural belonging in their current community structure.  Each organizational tool can be tested, applied and discussed in the community individually.  Myers greatest strength is his ability to infect changed without proposing another prescriptive model of community.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-5794006517864269981?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/5794006517864269981/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=5794006517864269981' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/5794006517864269981'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/5794006517864269981'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2008/05/organic-community.html' title='Organic Community'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-117691172999146806</id><published>2007-04-18T08:51:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-04-18T08:55:30.006-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Organic Church</title><content type='html'>Summary&lt;br /&gt;            Neil Cole desires to strip the church down to its DNA and from this basic unit to restore health and maintain healthy reproduction and multiplication.  Cole’s focus is on growing the Kingdom of God rather than an individual Church expressed in a one-day, one-hour worship event.  The basic unit of the church is not simply an individual, but two or three individuals.  At this size he argues community, accountability, confidentiality, flexibility, communication, direction, and leadership are all operating at their strongest levels.  The model for Coles understanding of Churches DNA is taken from the life and ministry of Jesus.  He uses an acronym to simplify the goal of the church as being expressions of divine truth, nurturing relationships, and apostolic mission.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observations&lt;br /&gt;            The nature of Cole’s arguments and solutions reminded me of the books and articles I have read by Joel Comiskey, Ralph Neighbors and M. Scott Boren.  The reduction of the church to its smallest parts is a common approach taken by the cell church and house church movement.  Cole’s advantage and distinction over these other authors is simply that his movement is American in origin.  Most cell church authors and leaders have seen great success in other countries and transport their models to the stagnant church in the West.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;            In a chapter called “We all began as Zygotes” Cole makes a statement that has stuck with me.  “Realize that no matter how inflated you think the world population is we are only on generation away from extinction if we do not have babies.”  He was making an excellent point about focusing on shaping healthy people and communities that will shape the next generation.  Simply reaching more people is not a good enough goal.  The cause of the Kingdom needs the reproduction of healthy people and systems who are fruitful and multiply their efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;            I find myself more and more frustrated when authors represent Jesus ministry and the early disciples as cell churches and accountability groups.  Jesus did his ministry with a small group of disciples inside the practice of synagogue and temple Judaism.  Paul shared with the Jews in the synagogue, not to ask them to leave the synagogue, but to embrace Jesus as Messiah.  The other assumption about organic churches I would like to challenge is their dependence on a myopic reading of scripture.  The divine truth component of Neil’s DNA is accomplished through reading large portions of scripture.  While the practice has a high potential for spiritual formation, it assumes if people simply read the Bible through their lenses with 1 or 2 other people they will have no problem discerning the direction and will of God.  This assumption ignores the benefits and wisdom of tradition, reason, broader experience and spiritual gifting (teaching &amp; prophetic).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess&lt;br /&gt;            Cole has a strong understanding of Kingdom multiplication and health at the smallest levels.  Any cell church or small group would do well to model their discipleship on the characteristics Cole gleans from the life and ministry of Jesus.  The description of the churches DNA as an expression of divine truth, nurturing relationship and apostolic mission is validated by both the Biblical commission of the church and its historical purpose in God’s salvation plan.  Organic Churches will certainly help bring the Kingdom of God to the world.  The weakness of the Organic Church is its lack of vision for larger organization that brings the fruits of the Kingdom like national peace and justice.  The Organic Church is overly focused on personal holiness rather then a more holistic social holiness.  Finally, Organic Churches promote a strong but naive understanding of the Bible and it role in forming Christian community.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-117691172999146806?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/117691172999146806/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=117691172999146806' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/117691172999146806'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/117691172999146806'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2007/04/organic-church.html' title='Organic Church'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-117010332493822732</id><published>2007-01-29T12:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-03-01T14:08:37.193-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Conspiracy of Kindness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/2195/1460/1600/933456/kindness.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger/2195/1460/320/659713/kindness.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Summarize&lt;br /&gt;            Steve Sjogren’s creates an excitement and a hope for new possibilities in the area of evangelism.  He describes the conspiracy of kindness as evangelism for the 90% of Christians rather than the 10% of gifted evangelists. I intend to walk my leadership team through the book in the next 10 months.  The servant style of evangelism Sjogren describes focuses of showing God’s love is practical ways with no strings attached.  The projects he describes as “Low Risk, High Grace” include washing windows, cars, and toilets for free.  These projects allow more people (small groups and children especially) to find practical ways to bring the love of God into their neighborhoods and cities.  Sjogren emphasizes the importance of showing people God’s love for them before we tell them about Jesus. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe&lt;br /&gt;            In the chapter titled, “Five Discoveries That Empower Evangelism”  Sjogren lays the foundation for why he believe servant evangelism is effective.  First, “People Listen When I Treat Them Like Friends.”  This reminded me of the work being done by Brian McLaren and Jim Henderson to emphasis the importance of relationships in their books, “More ready then you realize” and “Ordinary Attempts Guide to Evangelism.”  Sjogren’s second point was, “When I Serve, Hearts are Touched.”  The power of service to bring the Kingdom of God and love of God near is a recurring theme in the work being done to redefine the church as missional by Leslie Newbegin, Darrell Guder and many others.  The third discovery made by Sjogren is, “As I Serve, I Redefine the Perception of a Christian.”  For many years the church and its leaders believed that people were looking for the church to be redefined.  Today Sjogren joins voices like Donald Miller (author of “Blue Like Jazz”) who argue that people need to have their perception of what a Christian is and does redefined.  Discovery number four is titled, “Doing the Message Precedes Telling the Message.”  This is an area where I find servant evangelism to separate itself from other cognitive and apologetically based approaches.  Sjogren seems genuinely focused on bringing the Kingdom of God to people rather then supply an evangelistic bait and switch.  The final discovery he shares is, “Focusing on Planting, Not Harvesting.”  In this section he highlights the mal forming practices of only counting conversions &amp; baptisms as marks of successful evangelism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;            I believe Sjogren is championing an evangelism model and program that is fun, easy to understand, and well intentioned.  He admits that at the start of any of their serving projects people expect the normal strings to be attached.  There is no way to short cut the time needed to build relational trust with those being served.   The greatest strength of the approach is its ability to mobilize people to do something loving for their community.  Many times we prepare people to death, with little to no action ever taking place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;My greatest doubt about the legitimacy of Sjogren’s model is its connection to the real needs of the community.  Servant evangelism sprinkles God’s love all over the city like a salt shaker.  Unless the community of churches is willing to take the next step to invite those who “taste and see that God is good” into deeper love and relationship, we are simply making people more thirsty.  I am not making a judgment against Sjogren and his community, but rather challenging those churches who might begin this model of evangelism without counting the cost of loving the people who would come for more help and healing.            &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess&lt;br /&gt;            The theological motivation and practical methods found in this book are a solid foundation for servant evangelism.  I hope to process and practice the ideas for bringing God’s love to others with my own leadership team.  I have heard the challenge from Sjogren to start doing something (anything) to show God’s love to others in a practical way.  It is my goal to combine this passionate desire to love others with the real and felt needs of our community in Salem Oregon.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-117010332493822732?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/117010332493822732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=117010332493822732' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/117010332493822732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/117010332493822732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2007/01/conspiracy-of-kindness.html' title='Conspiracy of Kindness'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-115290071358968281</id><published>2006-07-14T11:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-07-14T11:11:53.590-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Missional Leader</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/missional%20leader.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/missional%20leader.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Summarize:&lt;br /&gt;The first agenda of “The Missional Leader” was to describe the culture and environment in which the North American church currently exists. The authors distinguish the difference between a missional orientation to life, ministry leadership verses a repackaging of church growth strategy using missional language. The pastor as shepherded and the pastor as CEO are compared and contrasted with what they call the missional leader. Building on the theological foundations of Darrell L. Guder, Leslie Newbegin and others Roxburgh and Romanuk seek to outline the skill and structures needed by those who wish to create missional environments for the sharing of the Gospel of Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe:&lt;br /&gt;In describing the context of the church in North America the authors label three zones of missional leadership. These zones assume the church is in a state of change and will continue to experience high levels of change. The emergent zone is a time of pioneering, creativity and experimentation. The performative zone arises out of the emerging success and has a galvanizing, systematizing and controlling effect on the culture of the organization. The reactive zone describes the crises that occurs when the system and structures of the performative zone stop producing the great results they once did. In the reactive zone leaders often respond to the confusion and instability by managing and reinforcing (working harder and longer) on ineffective systems. These situations need leaders who will transition into a time of creativity and emergence. Many North American congregations and denominations are currently in the reactive stage of organizational life. The temptation of these organizations is to focus on programs, alignment and a quick fix. The road to becoming a missional organization requires the leader to address both the culture they exist in and the culture they hope to create.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe:&lt;br /&gt;Roxburgh and Romanuk believe there is a model for leaders to follow to address the rapid change and instability in our organizations and culture. The skills they hope to share with leaders are focused on engaging culture and the Spirit of God through what they call a “Missional Change Model.” The model has five steps that are not linear, but can be described as sequential. The first step is “awareness” and is what I would describe as an environment where listening to God and others is the number one value of leaders. The second step takes what has been learned through listening and seeks “understanding.” The skill articulated for engaging in these activities are: Dwelling in the Word, the Daily Office, and Hospitality to the Stranger. Leader are then encouraged to connect their awareness and understanding with a process of critical evaluation including culture, the organization and their leadership. A leader is encouraged to undergo a 360 evaluation in the areas of authenticity, self awareness, conflict management, personal courage and trustworthiness. Once the first 3 steps are in motion it is time to “Experiment.” This is when people who have been taught to hear from God and each other are challenged to action. The final stage of the change model requires a commitment to what is essentially the new structure and system for engaging culture with the Gospel of Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt:&lt;br /&gt;The authors speak of creating a safe place for imagination and experimentation. They also encourage leaders to maintain a sense of stability in worship and teaching during these times of confusion and change. This seems like the appropriate advice for those hoping to transition or turn around and existing organization. Those who are starting new organizations do not always have these standard safe places of worship and teaching. Can an organization successfully re-imagine their structures of worship, or pedagogies for teaching? This is precisely what some new churches are attempting to do. They are finding new ways to re-image their Worship Gathering as a community participating together and teaching one another. They are transitioning out of a consumer based (expert) culture of teaching and worship. In this situation they find themselves desperate for stability, but still yearning for creativity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess:&lt;br /&gt;“The Missional Leader” treads the dangerous water of presenting models and applications for the postmodern condition of the culture and church. The “Missional Change Model” asks the right questions and forces leaders to acknowledge their need to learn. Becoming a missional leader seems to present an incredibly high and difficult challenge of both engaging culture and creating new environments. Roxburgh and Romanuk suggest a return to several spiritual disciplines to navigate these challenges by hearing and following the Spirit of God. They present a model of leadership that honors both God and the people who make up the church.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-115290071358968281?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/115290071358968281/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=115290071358968281' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115290071358968281'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115290071358968281'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/07/missional-leader.html' title='The Missional Leader'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-115290034943967911</id><published>2006-07-14T11:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-07-14T11:05:49.443-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Missional Church</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/missional%20church.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/missional%20church.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Summarize&lt;br /&gt;The “Missional Church” was edited by Darrell Guder but much of the books richness and depth come through its diverse voices. A great team of theologians and practitioners have joined their knowledge and experience under the banner of resending the Church in American. Unlike many how to books the challenge of reaching America with the good news of Jesus and his Kingdom is presented as a monumental challenge. The “Missional Church” undertakes the task of presenting a missional theology of the church that is: biblical, historical, contextual, eschatological, and practical. Under girding this theology is the assumption that mission is understood and derived from the very nature of God, mission Dei.&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn1" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn1" name="_ftnref1"&gt;[1]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Missional Church” describes the context and environment for sharing the gospel in both North America and Canada. Craig Van Gelder describes the postmodern condition and its transitions in culture and society in connection with consumerism, the self, and truth. Van Gelder does a useful overview of the Church as it experienced Christendom, denominationalism, and the church growth movements. After establishing the context of the mission George Hunsberger provides and inspirational call to be the people of God bearing the Good News: The Reign of God is at Hand. Hunsberger describes the Reign of God as the teaching objective of Jesus and the historical prophetic visions of shalom characterized by peace, justice, and celebration. The church experiences the Reign of God through the biblical images of gift and realm which are received through the acts of repentance and faith.&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn2" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn2" name="_ftnref2"&gt;[2]&lt;/a&gt; Lois Barrett provides specific direction for a church seeking to have an apostolic ministry in our present day context. Barrett uses the familiar example of Jesus as preacher, teacher and healer to illustrate how these objectives look different in the environment of God’s reign and new citizenship. Inagrace T. Dietterich help make missional theology a practical reality in his chapter on “Missional Community: Cultivating Communities of the Holy Spirit.” In this chapter he applies missional theology to the practices of Baptism, Communion, accountability, discernment, and hospitality. Alan Roxburgh is the one who helped me see the amazing spiritual formation that can take place through the practice of hospitality in his book “Missional Leadership.” Roxburgh uses several diagrams in his chapter entitled “Equipping God’s People for Mission” to illustrate a community that is both open and committed. He uses the language of creating a pilgrim people of God seeking God’s reign and a bounded Covenant Community committed to living out God’s Reign.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Guder describes the belief and commitment of the “Missional Church” in his chapter on “The Particular Community.” This quote is found in the context of describing a churches move from Parish to Mission Community.&lt;br /&gt;We believe that we are the church, that is, we are a community of God’s called and set apart for witness to the good news of Jesus Christ. We are blessed to be a blessing. As the Father has sent Christ, so Christ sends us. Jesus Christ has defined us as his witnesses where we are. We believe therefore that the Holy Spirit not only calls us but also enables and gifts us for that mission. Our task is to determine the particular focus and direction of our mission. We are to identify the charisms given us by the Spirit for mission. We have the responsibility and the capacity through the Holy Spirit, to shape ourselves for faithful witness. Our purpose defines our organizational structures – which means that our mission challenges us to re-form our structures so that we can be faithful in our witness.&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn3" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn3" name="_ftnref3"&gt;[3]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This statement encompasses many of the teams values: a sent people, Trinitarian, gift driven, and changeable. Guder communicates with accuracy the most foundational beliefs and values for those who hope to be apart of a missional church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;Guder speaks highly of the churches worship gatherings and recognizes their importance in forming a people of God. He has equally high expectations for a dynamic of people on the edge of God’s Church and those who are in the center of covenant community. He believes worship should be carried out by “God’s called and sent people,” but it should also “welcome and make room for the curious, the skeptical, the critical, the needy, the exploring, and the committed.”&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn4" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn4" name="_ftnref4"&gt;[4]&lt;/a&gt; I don’t want to disagree with his vision or goal. I simply have not seen a worship gathering for worshipers that can make room for the skeptic and the critic. Worship should be forming us into people who love the skeptic and the critic, and invite them into our lives. I believe they will feel uncomfortable in sharing their true questions and concerns in a gathering of worshipers. Our worship should seek to continually convert and form the people of God. Those who do not want to be people of God yet are probably not ready to be in our worship Gathering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The “Missional Church” reestablishes the eschatological call for the church live out the mission Dei, bearing the Reign of God. The team of theologians and practitioners have skillfully joined together to create a consistent and coherent Missional Church theology. Guder has achieved the goal of presenting a picture of the Missional Church that is biblical, historical, contextual, eschatological, and practical. The “Missional Church” will serve as a primer for anyone seeking to lead or participate in a church in North America or Canada that seeks to missionaly share the God News of Jesus Christ.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn1" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref1" name="_ftn1"&gt;[1]&lt;/a&gt; pg. 5&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn2" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref2" name="_ftn2"&gt;[2]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 96&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn3" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref3" name="_ftn3"&gt;[3]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 236&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn4" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref4" name="_ftn4"&gt;[4]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 243&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-115290034943967911?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/115290034943967911/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=115290034943967911' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115290034943967911'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115290034943967911'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/07/missional-church.html' title='Missional Church'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-115289998564677604</id><published>2006-07-14T10:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-07-14T10:59:45.663-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A Generous Orthodoxy</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/generous%20orthodoxy.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/generous%20orthodoxy.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Summarize:&lt;br /&gt;Brian McLaren’s book “A Generous Orthodoxy” spends more time introducing, qualify and summarizing its purpose then any book I have ever read. Chapter 0 is essentially an invitation to take the book back, but serves to illuminate many of McLaren’s assumptions about Christianity and the Church. The word generous is used to describe a posture toward others involved in the pursuit of Orthodoxy. Orthodoxy is then defined as “right thinking” in reference to truth, doctrines and theologies. McLaren suggests that along side a pursuit of Orthodoxy an Orthopraxy (right practice) of creedal Christianity should be a primary concern. In the pursuit of right practice (Orthopraxy) people lives and beliefs will be formed by the truth and glory of God. The book illustrates the short falls of Traditional Orthodoxy (right thinking), and how it has not led the church to its goal of unity and love. Each chapter has a unique voice and character contributing to a thesis of generosity and right practice among diverse doctrines and thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe:&lt;br /&gt;“A Generous Orthodoxy” acts as a set of glasses for those who move and interact only within their tradition. There is a chapter in the book for almost every major movement in Christianity. The movement is affirmed for their unique and valuable contribution and then challenge to see the weaknesses in their approach. Unlike a frontal attach that would cause people to become defensive, McLaren uses positive stories from alternative traditions to help people see outside their boxes and buildings. Few other writers have dared to identify themselves by so many names: evangelical, liberal, conservative, baptist, fundamentalist, charismatic, contemplative and catholic. Most other works of this kind have attempted to appear objective and removed from the traditions they are describing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe:&lt;br /&gt;McLaren seeks to lead people to an acceptance of both their commonality and diversity. He believes providing understanding will produce a love and appreciation for people of other traditions. He has made the assumption that a Christian who thinks they are finished and right is a dangerous and often narrow minded person. McLaren leads his readers to a place of believing and experiencing a God who is experienced in different ways at different times and places. The chapter on “The Seven Jesuses I have known” illustrates this belief that our relationship and knowledge of Jesus is changing and emerging. Each understanding of who Jesus was had a measure of truth and a focus (sin, healing, teaching ect…), but living with one focus always led to a problem or distortion of the whole person. As one form of Jesus breaks down is allows a person to experience another measure of who Jesus can be in their life and in the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt:&lt;br /&gt;I found myself excited, educated and inspired by McLaren’s work to create Christians who are more generous with one another and God. I question weather this journey in greater understanding will produce an atmosphere of practice or apathy. I am interested to know what a Generous Orthodoxy church would look like and practice. In politics the moderate position has been unable to inspire the masses to its mission and purpose. It seems possible that church communities without a strong sense of identity and mission apart from the holy, catholic, apostolic, “Generous Orthodoxy” church will lose momentum and commitment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess:&lt;br /&gt;McLaren makes the correct observation that Orthodoxy is often hostile to those outside of its boundaries. Orthodoxy can be used to abuse as easily as it can be used to encourage and unite. I believe he is correct in pushing the church to believe generosity and orthodoxy should and can be combined. Many would rightly argue that the Holy Spirit is the protector of the church and orthodoxy. This should not cause us to assume that the church has always had the right definition of orthodoxy. McLaren creates a beautiful picture of the church shutting the door to the Holy Spirit, and the Spirit entering back in through the window. The Holy Spirit was at work in the early church guiding them towards truth. The Holy Spirit is still working to bring us into all truth. A Generous Orthodoxy is the consistent practice of humility, charity, courage, and diligence. This does not eliminate the existence or need for doctrines. Doctrines that do not find their root in the statements of the Apostles and Nicene creeds should not be seen as primary or essential for Christian salvation. Secondary doctrines may have importance within a particular denomination, but not as a measuring stick for Christian Orthodoxy. The doctrines required and essential for salvation in Christian orthodoxy can be found in the creedal statements of the Apostles and Nicene creeds. In the final analysis a Generous Orthodoxy is to be caught up in the practice of loving God and all of his creation.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-115289998564677604?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/115289998564677604/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=115289998564677604' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115289998564677604'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115289998564677604'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/07/generous-orthodoxy.html' title='A Generous Orthodoxy'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-115289908243208447</id><published>2006-07-14T10:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-07-14T10:44:42.456-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A New Kind of Christian</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/new%20Christian.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/new%20Christian.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Summarize&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Brian Mclaren’s book “A New Kind of Christian” explores several shifts in theology, culture and philosophy using a novel/narrative style. Polarizing and divisive issues like evolution, postmodernism, hell, evangelism and the Gospel message are discussed through characters in conversation and relationship. Through their struggle for understanding the reader is given permission to engage in what has sometimes been a taboo conversation and line of questioning. In the process a New Kind of Christian emerges who seeks to survive and thrive in a new world. The books acts as a primer for continued conversation and begins to paint what a Christian in a postmodern world might look like.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe&lt;br /&gt;A New Kind of Christian, is a tale of two friends on a spiritual journey, but it's also a description of the author's own spiritual journey. McLaren seems to be taking us into his own story and insights. Even though the book is packaged as a novel each chapter has a specific focus and purpose it hopes to achieve. The end notes for each chapter are a helpful place to discover the theologians and practitioners who have directed Brian’s thinking. Great resource books are referenced to process each thought provoking idea and ideological shift. In some ways it is a reading list for A New Kind of Christian including authors like Lenard Sweet, Stanley Grenz, NT Wright and Dallas Willard. .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;The most helpful dimension of McLaren’s book is not Neo’s (character Neil Edward Oliver) articulate explanations for a new understanding of science, the Bible, the Kingdom of God, or education (those were great). Instead, I believe the true genius of Brian’s book is the detailed reactions of those with whom Neo relates with. The feelings and thoughts Pastor Dan and other congregation members express are the struggles a majority of people are having with these shifts. There is a normalizing effect that takes place through reading about the anxiety and fears of others. Pastor Dan is soaking up a great deal of what Neo has to say, but at several points (in reference to hell and other religions) he cannot handle the discussion and “freaks out.” Another helpful interaction is outlined in the last chapter of the book involving a youth worker, angry parents, and a senior pastor. The parent reaction is one that should be expected when they feel their children are being led astray, but through the patience and generous spirit of the pastor and youth workers the situation is eventually diffused. I believe the book provides a helpful picture of the long dialogue and hard work that will be required to emerge as New Kinds of Christians.&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;Two themes that categorize many of the topics in the book are a call to diversity and interdependence. McLaren calls for softening our rhetoric (e.g., replacing good and bad with appropriate and inappropriate&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn1" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn1" name="_ftnref1"&gt;[1]&lt;/a&gt;). However, in many ways Neo speaks about a modernity that is bad if not evil. “the modern version of Christianity that you have learned from your parents, your Sunday school teachers, and even your campus ministries is destined to be a medieval cathedral. It’s over, or almost over,”&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn2" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn2" name="_ftnref2"&gt;[2]&lt;/a&gt; It seems possible if not probable for this to encourage many young readers to discard the faith they learned from their mentors. At times McLaren reinforces many dichotomies which follow the modern routine of forcing people to label concepts good or bad. In fact, a Christian could possibly care about being saved from Hell and sin, about getting into Heaven and being good, about having our sins forgiven and being good neighbors.&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn3" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn3" name="_ftnref3"&gt;[3]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;McLaren’s intention seemed to be a transition from modern individualism to interdependence. Unfortunately, in many respects Neo often looks like a rugged individualist who refers to his church community experiences with a great deal of pessimism. At one point he makes the comment that he had become “isolated as a member of a religious sub-culture”&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn4" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn4" name="_ftnref4"&gt;[4]&lt;/a&gt; and this experience had not served him well in the long run. His alternative community included swimming with dolphins and going to soccer games with non-Christian friends. These activities illustrate how a Christian might enter into the reconciling work of God in the world. However, it does not illustrate the interdependence of an open community were Christian and non Christian seek and worship God. Neo provides a great example of a missional life on an individual level, but greater questions of community are left relatively unexplored.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess&lt;br /&gt;McLaren calls all those who read this book to a self-examination of our “own modern viewpoint.”&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn5" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn5" name="_ftnref5"&gt;[5]&lt;/a&gt; I found this journey to be both exciting and difficult to navigate. McLaren also says that he hopes for every reader that “you will feel you have made real progress when you turn the last page.”&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn6" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn6" name="_ftnref6"&gt;[6]&lt;/a&gt; The conversations shared by Dan and Neo provide both hope and confidence for more Christians to engage in these important conversations and debates. The format of the book was critical to its ability to bring issues people are afraid of through a side door. McLaren uses his characters to share his own wisdom and depth as a pastor. While discussing deep seeded theological issues and the postmodern shift the reader is exposed to great pastoral care and relational reconciliation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn1" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref1" name="_ftn1"&gt;[1]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 22&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn2" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref2" name="_ftn2"&gt;[2]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 29&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn3" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref3" name="_ftn3"&gt;[3]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 130&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn4" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref4" name="_ftn4"&gt;[4]&lt;/a&gt; Pg 116-117&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn5" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref5" name="_ftn5"&gt;[5]&lt;/a&gt; 35&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn6" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftnref6" name="_ftn6"&gt;[6]&lt;/a&gt; (xviii)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-115289908243208447?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/115289908243208447/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=115289908243208447' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115289908243208447'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/115289908243208447'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/07/new-kind-of-christian.html' title='A New Kind of Christian'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-114340878527884889</id><published>2006-03-26T13:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-03-17T20:54:04.853-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A Hidden Wholeness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/palmer.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/palmer.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; The best description for my experience with Parker Palmers book would be frustration.  To speak of the soul, healing and community in a neutral and secular context is outside my convictions and beliefs.  Palmer speaks of humanities “endless capacity for self-absorption and self-deception.”  I agree with him that community is essential in helping us find our true identity and soul.  However, what I am interested in is Christ centered, rather than Humanity centered, community.  Palmer’s explanation of the soul and wholeness  seemed to move around our need for a Trinitarian God.&lt;br /&gt;            Many of the topics Palmer discusses are helpful to understanding in creating an authentic community.  The disconnect came because his language forced me to decided on each topic if I could understand wholeness in the same way he had defined it.  I could go along with his critique of the secularist and moralism.  I do believe moralism has had an unhealthy understanding of self as bad.  Before I read Palmer I would have considered myself as fairly optimistic on the goodness of humanity.  However, my self is good in that it reflects the creativity, glory and favor of God.&lt;br /&gt;            Every time I hear the phrase “The Circle of Trust” I think of the movie “Meet the Parents.”  In a terrible way this has ruined this term for me as a serious descriptor of authentic sharing and community.  I would like to affirm that I can identify with each of his conditions:  Clear Limits (clear expectations), Skilled Leadership, Open Invitations (opportunities for depth), Common Ground, and Creating Ambiance.   The most helpful reminder for me in this section was his explanation of coming to common ground through differences, stories and goals.  The most fulfilling groups I have been apart of have had clear goals that have allowed for a great diversity in our points of view and experiences.&lt;br /&gt;            Palmer’s description of the “focus person” was very helpful.  In one meeting I am apart of I see the focus person changing a rotating on the basis of need.  It is helpful to think that even if I am the leader facilitator others can become the “focus person” were we as a group are listening to God for them and offering thought on their topic.  In other relationships I can recognize that even if I am the “expert”  they come to the meeting as the focus person.&lt;br /&gt;            When I read about the Quaker understanding of silence I see something that I appreciate and desire.  However, I know they have done the work of setting clear limits or expectations for how God is going to work through silence.  Most of the people I am currently in contact with do not understand the value of silence.  This is actually an area I feel is a growth edge in my own spiritual formation.  Between reading both Palmer and Henry Nouwen this semester I am becoming very convinced of the value of silence&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-114340878527884889?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/114340878527884889/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=114340878527884889' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/114340878527884889'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/114340878527884889'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/03/hidden-wholeness.html' title='A Hidden Wholeness'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-113994130528704637</id><published>2006-02-14T10:19:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-02-14T10:21:45.333-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Community that is Christian</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/Gorman.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/Gorman.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Julie Gorman’s book on small groups is a thorough and broad picture of what small group community can be.  I found the early chapters to be less practical, but they challenged my assumptions.  She opened my eyes in her chapter on individualism to just how self serving a small group can be.  This chapter was not assigned, but it gave me incredible insights into the environment that we bring our big dreams of community into.  This was not the typical “here is a model” book on small groups.  I was challenge and equip in a new areas of group formation.&lt;br /&gt;            I don’t believe I had ever fully connected a persons personality with what they would desire from their small group.  I had certainly not figured out how to lead each personality into a fuller experience of community.  The implications of being an introvert or an extrovert were easy to identify.  However, I benefited greatly from thinking about how a sensor and a judger would have different expectations.  It was also helpful to work through how I could better communicate to both feelers and intuitives.  I do not believe my goal is to please all these different personalities, instead it is my challenge as a leader to become more aware and sensitive to the needs of diverse people.&lt;br /&gt;            Each person Gorman quoted has produced a prolific book on the topic of community or small groups.  What I appreciated most about her book was its combination of broadness and depth.  The sections on conflict were especially helpful for me.  To often I do not do an adequate job preparing my small groups for the conflict we will encounter.  I was recently on a mission trip were the sending organization provided our curriculum.  In all 4 of our preparation meetings we were told that conflict will be inevitable and given tools for how to handle it appropriately.  The out come was that our group handled their conflict in greater health and speed than any other group I had previously been apart of. &lt;br /&gt;            I would suggest this book to anyone serious about becoming a better small group leader.  Each chapter presents information in a variety of styles, and I was able to go deep in my areas of interest and skim what I would call the “standard group info.”  I appreciated he consistent references to proven experts in the fields of community, spiritual formation, and small groups.  As I have already mentioned I enjoyed her work on “The Big Picture of Community” as much as her practical section on “Group Development.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-113994130528704637?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/113994130528704637/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=113994130528704637' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113994130528704637'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113994130528704637'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2006/02/community-that-is-christian.html' title='Community that is Christian'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-113540257436253896</id><published>2005-12-23T21:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2005-12-23T21:36:14.390-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Local Church, Agent of Transformation</title><content type='html'>Summarize&lt;br /&gt;            In chapter 2 of Yamamori and Padilla book The Local Church, Agent of Transformation Voth writes pointedly about integral mission and the realities of poverty and injustice.  He champions the needs of the poor as more than a handout or single church effort.  Voth calls Christians to an “awareness of the complex interactions of the many forces in our individual and social lives as well as in the world (84).”  An integral mission will demand individuals and churches to evaluate their understanding of justice and anthropology.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe&lt;br /&gt;            Voth explains on page 84 that the economic power center determines the shapes of all other community cultural and social structures.  It is the lack of justice within the economic sphere that is “the principle—and practically exclusive—cause of poverty (97). ” Voth calls the church to practice biblical justice, be open-handed, and work by means of its social relationships to alleviate poverty (97).  In bringing justice to our culture our anthropology is important.  Voth makes a great point on page 59, "It is not simply about feeding someone, but about creating a context in which human beings can also regain their dignity(59)."  Later he gives this fuller explanation when he writes, ““Poverty is a cruel and oppressive reality.  It dehumanizes people to such an extent that it is almost impossible to affirm that the image of God is reflected in them.”   Voth presents the challenge of attacking injustice systems while bringing value and worth to human life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believe&lt;br /&gt;            To believe what Voth is saying is true requires both repentance and change.  Integral mission puts a premium on how individuals steward the 90% of the resources they keep.  The 10% should be given “out of hand” to help the poor, but individuals still have the 90% at their disposal to bring justice and dignity  to our world.  As Voth has stated beautifully, “This means that faithfulness to God has little to do with what one gives, but it has a lot to do with what one keeps or holds back for oneself (80)."  Helping the poor and creating a culture of justice is a full time vocation for every Christian.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doubt&lt;br /&gt;            Some of Voth’s claims about the poor seem to be overstated.  On page 56 he says, “the very existence of the poor is a sign that Christ’s disciples are not obeying the mandate of Deuteronomy.”  This seems to be an over simplification of what Voth himself has called a “complex” problem.  Effort and money will not be enough to ride the world of injustice and poverty.  As long as sin exists in the world, the follows of Christ will have to fight with love, wisdom, and courage the battle against poverty and the injustice that causes it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assess &lt;br /&gt;            The challenge Voth submits for individuals and the church is to determine the nature of the economic power center and the culture it is creating.  This is a skill Voth possesses and will be needed in each culture and community.  Upon observing this power center questions should be asked about how it contributes to poverty.  The next step for the church involves working within its social networks to advocate for biblical justice.  Where possible, the church should use its resources to create systems by which individuals can overcome poverty.  Churches are traditionally much better at doing their little part than networking for larger results.  Voth’s greatest contribution is the call for an integral and broad attack on poverty and the injustice systems that create it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-113540257436253896?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/113540257436253896/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=113540257436253896' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113540257436253896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113540257436253896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/12/local-church-agent-of-transformation.html' title='The Local Church, Agent of Transformation'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-113234038189244466</id><published>2005-11-18T10:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2005-11-18T10:59:41.906-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Church on the Other Side</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/church%20on%20the%20other%20side.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/church%20on%20the%20other%20side.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The intention of Mclaren’s book “The church on the other Side” can be captured by the evaluation questions he provides in Strategy Three “Practicing Systems thinking.” In essence this book calls leaders and churches to evaluate their current systems in light of a cultural shift being called postmodernity. This evaluation is captured in four questions he proposes for evaluating our church systems. Does this help uncommitted people become followers of Jesus? Does this help followers of Jesus become better followers of Jesus” Does this enhance the development of authentic Christian Community? Does this empower, equip, deploy the church for missional identity for the good of the world?&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn1" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn1" name="_ftnref1"&gt;[1]&lt;/a&gt; Every topic and issue presented in this book is concerned with wrestling with one or more of those questions.&lt;br /&gt;In many instances I recalled what Mclaren was saying from other authors I have read. I should note that in each instance he seemed to be adding a new spin to the conventional understanding. One example of this was his chapter on structure in Strategy Eight. I had found most of what Mclaren had to say in a book by Gary McIntosh called “One size Doesn’t Fit all.” However, Mclaren’s final analysis describing the best structure as ones flexible enough to become a better structure tomorrow was a powerful observation&lt;a title="" style="mso-footnote-id: ftn2" href="http://www.blogger.com/post-create.g?blogID=15689227#_ftn2" name="_ftnref2"&gt;[2]&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;The structure of this book seemed to be inviting churches to consider and evaluate the other side (postmodernity). As a leader I did not feel like Mclaren was seeking to convince or convert me to postmodernism. Instead, the challenges of doing ministry in today’s culture were discussed and described. Mclaren’s concern and compassion for the church are evident in his kind and open approach. I appreciated the wide scope of suggestions he gave for the possible solutions to any given problem. A great example of this can be found in Stragety Six “A new Apologetic.” After dismantling much of the old apologetic he provides several approaches to the contemporary issues of relativism and pluralism.&lt;br /&gt;I found most of Mclaren’s observations to be a solid and balanced approach to the issue. However, in his chapter on Postmodernism Strategy Twelve A he seemed compelled to present only the bright and optimistic side. This seemed to be a break in form, and made it seem for the first time that he was trying to convince me of the goodness of postmodernity. I want to push back on two of his five core values of postmodernity. Mclaren claims that postmodernity is sensitive to context. Simply because most people in the emerging culture appreciate individualism and autonomy of faith does not mean they have a greater understanding of social and historical context. Mclaren claims Postmodernity leans towards the humorous. In my observation the culture is move towards not away from seriousness, hopelessness, and depression. I have personally meet more people in the emerging culture who are disgruntled and lonely than humorous. I am not suggesting he is completely wrong, but that I would question context and humor as core values of the world on the other side. McLaren has given the church and its leaders a great gift in writing this book. It is not a book of answers, but great questions. Along with asking great questions about mission, apologetics, theology, and our systems he provides a variety of possible answers. I was challenge to think of how the new structure and systems these questions had created could be open to change and improvement tomorrow. Similar to trading&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-113234038189244466?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/113234038189244466/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=113234038189244466' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113234038189244466'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/113234038189244466'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/11/church-on-other-side.html' title='The Church on the Other Side'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112985612293111452</id><published>2005-10-20T17:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-03-15T17:32:23.866-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Aqua Church</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/Aqua%20Church.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/Aqua%20Church.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Aqua Church by Leonard Sweet is an essential resource book for me as a young Christian leader.  Sweet grabbed my attention with his postmodern parable on maps.  The insights I took from the map illustration set a high expectation for the rest of the book.  The continuous us of water as an analogy for our changing culture was powerful glue for his many streams of thought.  The Captain’s Logbook including both a personal log and a ship’s log was incredible helpful for the application of each chapter.&lt;br /&gt;          Jesus as the North Star was a great reminder to keep my focus clear and simply.  I find it easy to get wrapped up in doing church, as apposed to following Jesus.  The chapter was a great reminder of how worthy Jesus is of our adoration and devotion.  I don’t think I emphasis enough how great it is to be a disciple of Jesus.  Sweet provides a great list of Jesus’ attributes under his explanation of Jesus as the world greatest lover.&lt;br /&gt;          There are several great quotes in Sweet’s chapter on the Bible, but this one by Clark Pinnock was especially good, “There is something terribly wrong when we argue about the Bible more and enjoy it less.”  It is important for me to see the Bible as God’s love letter, his compass, and the truth that sets me free.  I want to be constantly moved by the power and truth of the scripture.&lt;br /&gt;          The anchor of Tradition shared in chapter 3 will be an analogy I will use over and over again.  Sweet explains that tradition like a ships anchor in a storm is not meant to hold the ship in one place, but to move it forward.  The crew cast the anchor forward in rough water, and slowly move through dangerous water.  When we faces rough and dangerous decisions the best course of action is to anchor to the creeds and beliefs of the church throughout history.  This kind of tradition does not hold us back, but helps us survive changing times. &lt;br /&gt;          Sweet’s chapter on Risk taking was great fuel for me as a church planter.  I was charged up by each challenge to look for new solutions to old problems.  The five types of responders to change listed in the Ship’s Log was extremely helpful.  The five were:  experimenters, early adaptors, frontrunners, late adapters, and slow movers.  It is important for me to remember that no matter how good of effective the change is some personalities will not easily transition.&lt;br /&gt;          Leadership Art #6 is Vision.  I found myself very interested in Blaise Pascal’s quote, “It is dangerous to show man too clearly how much he resembles the beast, without at the same time showing him his greatness.  It is also dangerous to allow him too clear a vision of his greatness without his baseness.  It is even more dangerous to leave him in ignorance of both.”  This seems to be the tight rope between a worm theology of human depravity, and the prosperity gospel of God’s blessings.  It seems to me to be difficult to not emphasis one over the other at any given time.  Paradox is had enough to live in let alone preach.&lt;br /&gt;          The art of Creativity is not one of my greatest strengths, but it rates high on my desires.  More than being creative I desire to see the creativity in others grow and mature.  I want to invite creativity into the church and give it a place to live.  I believe God as creator desires his people to be about the work of co creation with him.  I am doing my best to honor and encourage the artist in our community, and bring out the creativity in every person.&lt;br /&gt;          I feel I have barely scratch the surface of all this book as birthed in me.  Each chaptered caused my heart to race with excitement and passion for Jesus and his church.  Again, the Ship’s Log is a place I continue to go back to for personal guidance and group activities.  I want to thank Leonard Sweet for writing a great resource book for Christian leaders.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112985612293111452?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112985612293111452/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112985612293111452' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112985612293111452'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112985612293111452'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/10/aqua-church.html' title='Aqua Church'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112907558963459406</id><published>2005-10-11T17:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2005-10-11T17:06:29.643-07:00</updated><title type='text'>In The Name of Jesus</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/in%20the%20name%20of%20Jesus.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/in%20the%20name%20of%20Jesus.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;           Henry Nouwen writes his reflections on leadership out of his struggle with spiritual burnout.  He like so many was about the business of doing more Godly things, than he was being a Godly man.  His move to L’Arche is a great example of finding Jesus among the marginalized of society.  I have read “In the Name of Jesus” more than once, but each time I am still stung by its truth.  I am also stung by how relevant I try to be, while all the time calling it discipleship.&lt;br /&gt;          Nowen says in his opening chapter, “The great message that we have to carry, as ministers of God’s Word and followers of Jesus, is that God loves us not because of what we do or accomplish, but because he created and redeemed us in love and has chosen us to proclaim that love as the true source of all human life.”  I would love to live out that sentence as a Christian leader and human being.  I rarely do because of my desire to do something and be somebody.  I scramble for great success and accomplishments, while shielding people from the offensive message of God’s crazy love.  His love doesn’t always make sense and so I try to win people over with my pathetic niceness. I am convinced I need to work less at convincing and courting people, and more time simply telling them about God’s great love.&lt;br /&gt;          In Chapter 2 “The Question: ‘Do You Love Me” Nouwen draws a clear line between the love of God and the love of friends and family.  We all know there are limits to the love of our friends and family, and often project those assumptions on God.  I agree with Nouwen that it is a powerful gift to know the difference between God’s boundless love, and our limited love.  To know this difference is to get a glimpse of God’s heart.  I have seen and felt the difference between God’s love and the love of others.  Where I need to grow as a leader is in sharing my glimpse and understanding of God’s love with others.&lt;br /&gt;          Nouwen’s instruction on being a well informed leader was a great word for me, at a great time.  His words describe the situation well, “Christian leaders cannot simply be persons who have well-formed opinions about the burning issues of our time.  Their leadership must be rooted in the permanent, intimate relationship with the incarnate Word, Jesus...” It has been a season of life where my opinion on many topics has seemed pressing and important.  I have felt drawn more and more into the issues of politics.   It was important for me to remember where my sense of identity should come from.  More than an American, a liberal, a democrat, or republican I want to be know as a follower of Jesus.&lt;br /&gt;          The next temptation that Jesus and ministers face is to be spectacular.  In a consumer driven society it seems so easy to use flash to sell the message of Jesus.  I am amazed that Jesus was forced to wrestle with the same temptation.  The problem with those won by flash and miracles is their constant need to be wowed.  Jesus was making disciples and I need to have the same goal in mind.&lt;br /&gt;          The final temptation Nouwen mentions is to be powerful.  He writes this, “It seems easier to be God than to love God, easier to control people than to love people, easier to own life than to love life.”  I have to agree with him that many Christian leaders are in leadership because they love power.  The temptation to control has reared its ugly head in my life and ministry.  So often it feels that if I don’t hold on tight enough everything will fall apart.  The truth is that if I would loosen up a little bit God might have room to work.  I am coming to believe it is hard for God’s Spirit to move among a people who are controlled and programmed into thinking they already have all of God they need.  I believe my job as a leader is to help our community hear from God (both individuals and groups).  When I have all the answers they can stop listening and just follow my directions.  I believe I must constantly push against my tendency to control, and move towards being a fellow traveler who needs to listen.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112907558963459406?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112907558963459406/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112907558963459406' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112907558963459406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112907558963459406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/10/in-name-of-jesus.html' title='In The Name of Jesus'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112646007531815160</id><published>2005-09-11T10:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-03-07T09:44:05.670-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Reconciling Differences</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/Divorce.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/Divorce.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chapters 6 and 7 on forgiveness reshaped my understanding of the subject. The definitions provided for repentance and confession in chapter 6 were insightful. The confession grid (figure 6.2) on page 137 brought depth to the true complexity of a confession. Even when a confession is made there may be a limited amount of remorse or intention to change. On the other hand an authentic apology which includes the offenders plan to change is both remorseful and committed to change. I was able to see direct examples of this chart in my own marriage. My favorite mode of confession has always been “account giving.” I will admit my fault as long as the other person realizes their part, or assumes primary responsibility. In retrospect I can see that I have little intention of changing my actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chapter 7 provided a workable and practical understanding of how forgiveness can be accepted. Each of the stations rang true, but at the same time I had never put the whole process together. I see insight as a station in forgiveness that is often elusive and sometimes a stumbling block. Finding the true cause of the problem can often be hard. The blame or root cause of the problem maybe put in the wrong spot. For Gabriella and Chad they believed the cause of the problem was "the arrogance of our innocence.” In an effort to stop this chain the couple was intentional about educating their children about the affair and the “arrogance of innocence.” Because of our natural defense mechanisms it seems like it would be easy to offer a true but safe cause. I could say I caused great pain in our marriage by continuing the family addiction to work. Work can become the identified problem when truly the deeper issue is that I have an overwhelming need to achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found the key word in the second station of forgiveness to be empathy. To understand why a partner has harmed his or her spouse requires empathy. When a person has been wounded and feels the full pain of the offense it is hard to imagine themselves doing such a thing. To walk in the offenders shoes requires what Holeman calls an “understanding of who we are.” Until the offended can understand the struggles and brokenness of the offender they will have the temptation of demonizing them. I have experience this in more than just the marriage relationship. When I am at odds with someone and do not understand how they could act in such away I do not see them for “who they are.” I see them as evil and full of evil intentions. However when I see behind they actions into their heart and mind my perspective is often changed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hospitality is a bridge many couples are never able to cross. This station must be initiated by the person who has been wronged. They are the only ones who can invite the guilty part back into relationship. For Gabriella this meant verbalizing her commitment, embracing relocation, and praying together. They action invite Chad into the reconciliation relationship and make future progress possible. I can see that the list of actions could vary greatly from couple to couple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Without Holeman’s direction I would have never seen “giving opportunity for compensation” as a station. I would have taken for granted that when the transgressor makes attempts at compensation they will be accepted. After further reflection I can see that this would not always be the case. The injured party needs to committee to having what I would call, “eyes to see” the attempts of their partner. Without this commitment I would imagine that no compensation is going to count or make up for what has been done. In reality the compensation is not paying off the debt, but is rebuilding the relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I appreciated the fact that the “overt act of forgiving” comes last. We I have been the offending party I have often wanted this to be the first station in the process. After I lay out all the details of my wrong doing and repentance I would like my spouse to cancel my debt. However, it is only after the work of forgiveness has taken place that the right environment for debt cancellation is truly present. I will now be able to suggest a better process to other couples and be more patient in my own marriage.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112646007531815160?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112646007531815160/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112646007531815160' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112646007531815160'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112646007531815160'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/09/reconciling-differences.html' title='Reconciling Differences'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112564147189399155</id><published>2005-09-01T23:06:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2005-09-01T23:11:11.900-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Gift of the Red Bird</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/red%20bird.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/red%20bird.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was not a book to be studied; it was an experience to be enjoyed. Paula D’Arcy brought me into her life with all its pain and victory. I was so engulfed in her world that I could not help but listen to what she had to say. If she would have started with her wilderness experience I would have been skeptical and guarded. Instead, by the time she was talking to the animals I was willing to believe any of her experiences. Her honesty and vulnerability come out on paper with a heart gripping grace. I took a journey in my own life as I walked with her through this book.&lt;br /&gt;On page 15 she said, “How unexpected to discover that the mind only supplied knowledge about God.” It would be an under statement to say that I primarily seek God through my mind. This phrase acted for me as a frame work from which to understand D’Arcy’s perspective and agenda in the book. At this point I was reminded of other authors who have used the phrase, “Knowing about God is not knowing God.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When her husband and daughter died I felt drawn into the crash. Just as she never saw it coming, and her life changed in the blink of an eye, so did the tone of her book. Her grappling for an authentic relationship with God was raw, real, and inspiring. I longed for her to connect with God, and to find comfort. Then just as she finds God, a turning point takes place in their relationship. God will not allow her to believe anything is more important than their relationship. In a sense I believe God needs her to know that she cannot use or control him. She wants a natural birth more than she wants the will of God. In fact, she makes God the lord of her life in that moment before her baby is born. I have wrestled with God in similar fashion. I desired all the benefits of a relationship with him, but when he asked me to put him first above all else I ran. However, I got tired of running and wrestling, and I thank God that he was persistent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;D’Arcy’s next section took dead aim at the core of my greatest weakness. She laid bare the reality that ministry can drive people far away from the God they serve. Only after months in bed does she realize that what she has been missing out in the world is not what is most important. She realizes that many things run her life before God can even get a word in edge wise. She learns in those months to start listening to God in her surroundings. The noise of the world is so loud and it makes us so deaf that it took months before she even realized what she had been missing. This section cut me to the core and made me take a long look at my priorities and my schedule. God has his scheduled time each day, but it is always on my terms. I realized how impoverished I make my life by not keeping my eyes and ears open to what God is doing and saying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The “Quest” as D’Arcy calls it was the most vivid and enchanting section of her book. In a way I felt all her work was building towards this climax. She is about to have an encounter with the living God on his terms; and all alone. I found it interesting that she had so many chances to cut corners and to turn back, but she felt compelled by God to finish her quest. I identified with her fasting experience. I have fasted for 3 days before and it is always during the first day that I want to give up. By the second day I have found peace of mind, body, and soul. As she struggled with her aloneness on page 96 I though of my own insecurity. I enjoy being alone and can’t remember the last time I was bored. However, I tried to put myself in her shoes and I wondered if I would feel the same loneliness. I considered weather I had ever put myself in a place where it was just God and I with no escape. At first I relished in the idea, but as I read on I realized it would be a time of fear a trembling. With no where to hide I would be forced to face exactly who I am and who I try to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Gift of the Red Bird ended for me with a challenge to live closer to God and his creation. In a sense I felt like someone had awoken me from a deep slumber. It has been almost a month since I read the book. I wish I could say I have applied everything I learned, but I have changed in small ways. I have started smelling my food before I eat it. I have started noticing the birds in our neighbor hood. I have embraced the fall season during my jogs around the block. Each time I do these things I am asking for God to make himself known to me. I desire to be a person who realizes that they are apart of God creation, and not the only part that God can speak through.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112564147189399155?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112564147189399155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112564147189399155' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112564147189399155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112564147189399155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/09/gift-of-red-bird.html' title='The Gift of the Red Bird'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112491166306489922</id><published>2005-08-24T12:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2005-08-24T12:27:43.070-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The Search to Belong</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/1600/belonging%20words.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2195/1460/320/belonging%20words.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Joseph R. Myers writes with great honesty on a subject that many people are struggling to understand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Myths of Belonging (If I only had…..)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More time = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;More commitment = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;More purpose = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;More personality = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;More proximity = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;More small groups = more belonging&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Belong occurs when we&lt;br /&gt;Connect ++++  Commit ++++ Participate ++++find our connection significant&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4 SPACES of Belonging&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Public Space&lt;/strong&gt; - Public belonging occurs when people connect through an outside influence.  Fans of a sports team experience a sense of community because they cheer for the same team.  They wear official garb, buy special broadcast viewing privileges, and stay up too late or get up extra early just to see the results of the game.  These relationships carry great significance in our lives&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Social Space&lt;/strong&gt; - Social belonging occurs when we share "snapshots" of what it would be like to be in personal spcae with us.  The phrase "first impression" and "best foot forward" refer to this spatial belonging.  You belong socially to your favorite bank teller, you pharmacist, or some of the people with whom you work.  Social belonging is important for two reasons.  First, it provides the space for "neighbor" relationships.  A neighbor is someone you know well enough to ask for (or provide) small favors.  Second, it is important because it provides a safe selection or sorting space" for those with whom you would like to develop a "deeper" relationship.  We get just enough information to decide to keep this person in this space or move them to another space.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Personal Space&lt;/strong&gt; - Through personal belonging, we share private (not naked) experiences, feelings, and thoughts.  We call the people we connect to in this space "close friends."  They are those who know more about us than an acquaintance would, yet not so much that they feel uncomfortable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Intimate Space&lt;/strong&gt; - In intimate belonging, we share "naked" experiences, feelings, and thoughts.  We have very few relationships that are intimate.  These people know the "naked truth" about us and the two of us are not "ashamed."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Important Reminders from Myers&lt;br /&gt;People change spaces:  Marriage, Divorce, moving, ect.&lt;br /&gt;Belonging cannot measured by attendance&lt;br /&gt;Having a deep longing to belong is normal and healthy&lt;br /&gt;We can create space for belonging, but we cannot control or program an individuals choice to belong&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112491166306489922?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112491166306489922/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112491166306489922' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112491166306489922'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112491166306489922'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/08/search-to-belong.html' title='The Search to Belong'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15689227.post-112475660033856196</id><published>2005-08-22T17:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2005-08-22T17:23:20.343-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Courageous Leadership</title><content type='html'>Bill Hybels uses the experience and gifts God has given him to inspire and instruct church leaders.  After reading the first two chapters I was ready to conquer the world.  Hybels gave me a vivid picture of how important the work of the church is to God’s plan for the world.  The vision he described is compelled me to keep my vision sharp as we for our Church Planting team.  There are so many good directions to go, but I know that God has a pinpoint mission for us to be apart of.  Before I read Courageous Leadership I knew vision was important, but I now see it as the difference between getting by and prevailing.  I realized how much I wanted to be apart of a God sized vision, and why should the church plant team I work with desire anything less.  I have made the wrong assumption that I could over share my vision, or that everybody already knows what it is.  I was encouraged to find new and passionate ways to share the vision God has for our church.  The book also helped me see that setting specific goals could be beneficial and productive.  At times I have felt specific number goals to be rather arbitrary and humanistic.   Hybels makes an excellent point about, “what gets measured gets done,” and I know as a staff member at a church that I desire clear expectations form my senior pastor.  My leadership style is not heavily weighted towards being a strong visionary, but I have seen the great need to sharpen my vision, and make goal setting a priority.  I was literally shuffling through people in my mind as I read Hybel’s ten different leadership styles.  I found myself predominately in a few different styles, and felt freed from trying to be every type of leader.  I believe the recognition of these different types will help me encourage emerging leaders to find their niche.   Each chapter I read gave me allot to think about, and it will take me months or years to full realize the value of this book.  One concept I have been tossing around for more than a week is “self leadership.”  I can see the high value, but I cannot imagine spending 50% of my time in this area, and still being able to say I am being effective.  Maybe I just have some growing and understanding to do.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/15689227-112475660033856196?l=djs-book-rants.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/feeds/112475660033856196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=15689227&amp;postID=112475660033856196' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112475660033856196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/15689227/posts/default/112475660033856196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://djs-book-rants.blogspot.com/2005/08/courageous-leadership.html' title='Courageous Leadership'/><author><name>DJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11129083571062891134</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
